How to choose the perfect baby sling / carrier

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Age of Baby/Child
Carrying Positions
The Sling User(s)
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Soft Carriers
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Hip Carriers


Choosing a sling or baby carrier can seem like a daunting prospect: the vast range of options - different carrying positions, fabrics choices and so on - can seem bewildering at first, and most slings are fairly new to the market. However, there is at least one perfect sling out there for every family! Taking a bit of time now to think about what you want and need from your sling will ensure a happy and long babywearing relationship.

Confused by the terminology? Check our glossary! If you would like to compare baby slings and carriers our charts outline the main features and carrying positions of all of our range.

There are several different ways you can choose a sling or baby carrier. There may be a particular style of sling or carrier which appeals to you, or perhaps something else is important for your family situation. For example you, or someone else who will be caring for your baby/child, has a bad back, you have a baby with reflux and need to be able to carry him/her upright or you need a sling that several family members can share. Use the menu above to navigate to the section that is relevant, or start at the top and work through!

Age

  • How old is your baby?
  • Do you want to carry him/her for just a few months, or well into toddler-hood?
  • Do you want one sling which will last you through your baby-wearing days, or are you going to be buying more slings?
Ideal slings for infants: Stretchy Wraparounds, Pouches, Ring Slings
Ideal for older babies: Structured Soft Carriers, Hip Carriers
Ideal for both: Traditional Soft Carriers, Woven Wraps
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Carrying Positions

  • How does your baby like to be held? A baby that likes being held upright may not be happiest lying down in a sling.
 Ideal for babies who like being held upright: Ring Slings, Soft Carriers, Wraparound Carriers
  • Do you want the option of carrying your child on your back as well as your front.
 Ideal for back carries: Soft Carriers, Woven Wrap
  • Do you want to be able to carry your baby on your hip
Ideal for hip carries: Pouch, Ring Sling, Woven Wrap
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The Sling User(s)

  • How many people will be using the sling? Some slings come in different sizes, which may well affect their flexibility for you.
Ideal for use by different size wearers: Ring Slings, Stretchy Wraparound Carriers, Soft carriers, Hip Carriers
  • Does anyone who will be carrying your child have back, shoulder or pelvis problems, if so it is best to avoid one-shoulder slings
Ideal for those with bad backs: Soft Carriers, Wraparound Slings
  • Are you willing to learn different tying methods or are you more interested in a pop and go type carrier?
 Easy to use, 'pop and go' carriers: Pouches, Hip Carriers, Soft Carriers
 Slight learning curve: Ring Slings
 Larger learning curve: Wraparound Carriers
  • Do you want a traditional sling or a simple, modern design?

Modern, Simple looks: Pouches, Hip Carriers, Structured Soft Carriers

Traditional designs: Ring Slings, Traditional Soft Carriers, and Wraparound Carriers

How Sling Will Be Used

  • Do you want a sling for short periods of time such as a quick shop or the school run, or for several hours at a time, for example long walks or while your child sleeps
Ideal slings for short periods: Pouches, Ring Slings, Buckle Soft Carriers, Hip Carriers
Ideal slings for prolonged carrying: Soft Carriers, Wraparound Slings
  • Do you need to be 'hands-free' while using your sling e.g. to look after another child or to do jobs around the house
Most hands-free slings: Soft Carriers, Wraparound Slings

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Style of Sling

There are five basic styles of sling/carrier: Pouches, Ring Slings, Soft Carriers, Wraparound Slings, Hip Carriers. Many experienced babywearers will own one sling from each type, as they each have their own strengths. However, you may find that one style of carrier will fit your needs better than others

Pouches

Pouches are essentially a simple loop of fabric worn over one shoulder. Suitable for use from birth to around 30lbs they are an excellent simple 'pop and go' carrier. For best fit most pouches come in a range of sizes and it is important to find the right size otherwise they can be uncomfortable. Some designs are adjustable with either poppers or buttons. Very simple to learn to use and a huge variety of colours and patterns available. Babies with reflux or who prefer to be held upright may not like these carriers until they are a few months old and can be carried upright in the Buddha position or on the hip. These carriers tend to be the most inexpensive and are compact so can be popped in a changing bag.

Pouches at Big Mama Slings

Hotslings | Lifft Baby Slings | Peanutshell Pouch | Rockin' Baby Pouch

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Ring Slings

Ring Slings are similar in design to pouches except they can be adjusted by a simple tug on a tail of fabric that fits between the rings. Available in both padded and unpadded styles, these slings are again Maya Ring Sling Big Mama Slingsavailable in a huge range of materials and colours from silks to hemp. Although they come in various sizes, the only real difference is in the length of the tail and therefore most parents can share one sling. There is a small learning curve in getting to grips with adjusting the sling using the tail and threading the fabric through the rings but once mastered these are amongst the easiest slings to use and are ideal for breastfeeding in. Ring Slings have the advantage over pouch style slings of allowing an upright carry from newborn making them often more suitable for babies with reflux. Ring slings can become uncomfortable over long periods of time when used with heavier children. Wearers with bad backs should also be careful to alternate wearing sides, ensure their child is high on their body and to be mindful of any ache in their shoulders during use.

Ring Slings at Big Mama Slings

Ellaroo Ring Slings | Maya Wrap | Storchenwiege | Sakura Bloom | Rockin' Baby

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Soft Carriers

Soft carriers are based on traditional Asian baby carriers and are excellent for people with back problems as they distribute the weight evenlyFreehand Mei Tai at Big Mama Slings through the whole of the wearer's torso. Babies are held in an upright position on the wearer's front or back which is preferred by those with reflux and colic/gas problems. They are less easy to breastfeed in than other styles. There are two styles of soft carrier - tie-on carriers and buckle carriers.

The less structured traditional tie-on carriers (Mei Tai - pronounced May Tie) can be used from birth upwards although young babies are carried inside the carrier in the 'froggy' position until they are big enough to be carried in the legs-out position and some babies are not keen on on having their legs inside the carrier. They are very suitable for a family where there are two wearers of very different size as the lack of any buckles makes them very adjustable. They are totally reversible, usually to a plain side the same colour as the straps which is a great option for dads not wanting to wear a pretty pattern! The straps tie with a simple double knot, and although not as quick to put on or get the hang of as a buckle carrier, they do not take long to learn how to use.

Tie-On Carriers at Big Mama Slings

Babyhawk Mei Tai | Kozy Carrier | Freehand Mei Tai | Napsack Baby Carrier | Ellaroo Mei Tai | Toddlerhawk Mei Tai

Yamo Baby Carrier at Big Mama SlingsStructured buckle carriers are easy to learn to use and more 'mainstream' looking, although some styles of buckle carriers now have the option of the colourful and attractive fabrics and designs used on the more alternative looking tie-on carriers. Buckle carriers used to be only suitable from when a baby was sitting with good head support (usually between 4-7 months) and, while this is still true of some structured carriers, in the last few years some new buckle carriers have been developed which are suitable from birth.

Buckle Carriers at Big Mama Slings

Beco Butterfly Baby Carrier | Connecta Baby Carrier | Manduca Baby Carrier | Yamo Baby Carrier | Babyhawk Oh Snap! | Patapum
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Wraparound Slings

Wraparound Slings (commonly known as 'wraps') are available both in stretchy and woven fabrics and are the perfect from birth onwards carriers. Although they have a steeper learning curve than the other styles of carriers they are also the most versatile. They are also easy to breastfeed in unless you have very large breasts. Both styles are available in a variety of colours and fabrics to suit almost every taste.

Stretchy wraps tend to work best with smaller babies and are a truly 'hands-free' carrying experience, Tricot-Slen Wrap at Big Mama Slingsas the baby is carried almost weightlessly on your front. The stretchy fabric does usually mean as your baby gets heavier there is a point when they become less comfortable although this will depend on how quickly your baby gains weight and can be minimised by ensuring the sling is tight enough and the fabric is well spread. They are not the best style of sling for back carries as the fabric is usually not wide enough and, due to the stretch, does not provide sufficient support. Stretchy wraps tend to come in one length only (usually over 5m) therefore are a one size fits most sling and an excellent choice for several people to share.

Stretchy Wraps at Big Mama Slings

Moby Wrap | Close Baby Carrier | Tricot-Slen

Woven wraps are also ideal for use from birth although the thicker fabric takes a Didymos Wraparound at Big Mama Slingslittle longer to get used to; these carriers can be used up through toddler-hood on the hip and back as well as the front and become softer and more pliable the longer you use them.  Woven wraps are available in a variety of lengths to suit different body shapes and tying methods. For the basic front and back carries the 4.6m length will suit most families, although if one user is very tall and/or broad a wrap of over 5 metres may be better. The very short wraps are suited to one-shoulder carries and can be used much like a ring sling with a knot taking the place of the rings. Mid length wraps (3.5-4.2m) are a good choice for very petite parents and for carries which use less fabric such as the rucksack carry or kangaroo carry.

Woven Wraps at Big Mama Slings

Didymos | Storchenwiege | Ellaroo | Calin Bleu Cool Cotton Baby Sling

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Hip Carriers

Scootababy Hip Carrier at Big Mama SlingsHip carriers are suitable for use on the hip only and therefore can only be used when the child is able to sit up by his or herself. Some models are not truly hands-free and therefore tend to be best suited for use indoors and/or for short periods of time. They should be used carefully by those with back problems and sides should be swapped regularly. As hip carriers are adjustable they can be used by multiple users, and tend to be simple and modern in design.

Hip Carriers at Big Mama Slings

Scootababy Baby Carrier

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